How To Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend

Hey guys, I’m Tyler.  If you’re reading this, you’ve probably been recently dumped by your now-ex girlfriend.  Sucks.  I’ve been there, I know it hurts, and I know how lonely you feel right now.  That’s why I started this site on how to get back with your ex girlfriend.   After going through that kind of mess myself, and knowing how terrible I felt, I want to make sure other broken-hearted guys can get through it as quickly as possible and get their ex girlfriend back in their arms where she belongs.

So what makes me qualified to tell you how to get back with your ex girlfriend?  Well buddy, like I said, I’ve been there.  A couple of years back, I got my heart crushed to tiny pieces.  My girlfriend Linsey and I had been together for 3 years, and had been living together for a year at that point.  After the first 6 months of living together, I thought we had worked our way through the tough stuff and it was smooth sailing from then on, and for a while, it was.  Then things kind of went downhill.  We had little arguments, pretty much all the time.  Nothing significant, I mean, it was stupid stuff, like the dishes, or who was responsible for the vacuuming, what movie we should see, where we should go for dinner…  I thought everything was fine, and we were probably only arguing over the little things because we agreed on all the big things.

Then it happened.  One night, Linsey got after me for not doing my lunch dishes.  I had left a pan that she wanted to use for dinner unwashed.  I was in the middle of a game of Halo (kicking ass, I might add) so I told her to give me 20 minutes to finish it up and I’d take care of it.  She got angry, told me that I could take 5 minutes out of my “stupid game” to wash the pan since she’s trying to cook dinner.  I told her if it was so urgent, she should just do it herself, it’s just one pan, I mean come on…

… And the waterworks started.  Like most guys when their girlfriends start crying, I felt confused, frustrated, and wondered if I was really being that much of a jerk.  So of course, I gave in, went into the kitchen, washed the pan, and told her she could stop crying now, everything is fine.

Wrong.  It wasn’t fine.  She confessed that she hadn’t been happy with our relationship for the past couple of months, and that she was afraid to bring it up to me, because in typical guy fashion I try to end every conversation about feelings as fast as humanly possible.  There was more, but I don’t want to publish Linsey’s emotional outpour to the whole world… I’m sure you understand.

Anyway, the whole thing ended with the most painful words I’ve ever heard in my life.

“I don’t know if I love you anymore… I think we should break up.”

I’m not ashamed to admit that I cried.  3 years of my life with this girl, and we were talking about getting married, planning our LIVES together.  And it was over, just like that.  I was crushed.

… And fast forward to the present.  I’ve got Linsey next to me, looking over this post to make sure I didn’t brutalize the spelling too badly.  I got her back 7 painful months after we broke up, and we’ve been happier than ever since then.  If I hadn’t changed my approach to the situation, she never would have given me a second chance.  How do I know what you need to do to get your ex back?  I know because I’ve already done it myself.

If  you want to find out how to get back with your ex girlfriend, stay tuned.

- Tyler